Knowing how to open a conversation is the first step in achieving success during daygame. In this article we are going to list some of the best indirect and direct openers. Use these in combination with some of your game, and you’ll be collecting numbers in no time.
An indirect opener is when you talk to a girl about something externally rather than something about her specifically. As a beginner, you want to avoid using indirect openers as you will often miss setting premise and intent.
That being said, as you get better at game, you want to start using indirect openers more often. Until you are constantly getting girls we advise you stick to direct openers.
Ask for directions
Find out where a starbucks is, a place on campus or a nearby store.
Ask what time it is
Say your phone is dead and you don’t know what time it is.
You look bored
This works great if a girl is sitting by herself on a phone.
Self explanatory, but “Hi Im x”
A direct opener is when you specifically comment on a girl. Telling her she’s attractive is an example of one. As a beginner, this is where you want to start. It defines some sort of intent, but you will still need to set the premise.
As you get better with game, you want to start moving away from direct openers and start working on indirect openers. But when you are starting out, this is exactly where to be. Don’t overcomplicate it.
I think you’re cute
Easy way to show your interest and get a conversation going.
Compliment her style
Find something you like about her style. Clothes, hair etc.
You seem interesting
Depends on the situation, but just flow into the conversation.
Now that you know some of the different openers, go out there and get some numbers. Go on some dates and have some fun.
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