In this guide, I will be going over 69 proven ways on how to tell if a woman is attracted to you. Some of these signs are quite obvious while others are subtle.
Either way, you will be learning what signals to be looking out for in your next interactions.
Physical Signs a Woman Is Interested In You
She keeps looking at you
If she’s attracted to you, she will keep looking over at you. This is one of the most obvious signs on the list. If she’s shy, she will look away, otherwise, she might keep eye contact or smile.
Subconscious Physical Signs
- Licking Her Lips
- Touching Her Hair
- Exposes Her Neck
- Tilts her head towards you
- Caressing an object
- Feet Pointing Towards You
Body Pointing Towards You
Pupils Dilate
Putting on Lip Gloss
Open Body Language
Copying Your Gestures and Movements
She’s imitating what you do
Adjust Her Clothes
She’s trying to appear more attractive.
Lightly touching you
Whether it’s your arm, shoulder, or leg, she is trying to signal her interest to you.
Always goes for hugs
Everytime you see a girl, if she gives you hugs, she likes you.
Prolonged Eye Contact
She’s staring at you and signaling that she likes you.
Looking away when you look at her
She might be shy, but this is an easy way to spot if she likes you.
Short Glances At You
Quick glances checking you out.
Stands Tall, Pulls Shoulder Back, Sucks Her Stomach In
Trying to make herself appear skinnier and taller.
Reacts To Physical Touches
If you touch her look for her reaction and see if its normal.
Blushes When Around You
Girls tend to blush when they are around guys they like
Nervous or Shy
Some girls are shy. If that’s the case they’ll either be nervous or shy when you talk to them.
Change In Personality
Her public personality might change when talking to her.
Flustered when you do something out of the ordinary
Even if its something minor, she is confused or angry.
Touches The Edges of a glass
Good to look for in a setting where drinks are served(bars especially)
In Conversation
Asking if you are single
This is an easy way for her to find out if you are taken. If not, she’s showing that she’s interested in you.
Tells you she’s single
She’s going out of her way to hint to you that she’s available.
Effortless Conversation
Conversations between you two are effortless and always tend to go smoothly
Laughing a lot in conversation
Even if the conversation isn’t funny or you tell bad jokes, she’s going to make an effort at laughing at what you say.
Asks Personal Questions
She might ask you questions about personal into.
Gives up Personal info
She might tell you some personal info that she doesn’t share with others.
Reveals Quirky Side
She will show her quirky side that isn’t seen in public
Says yes to hangout
If you invite her to hang out, she will say yes without any hesitation
Invites you to events or hangout
She will invite you to go to events or hangout with her
Drops Hints that she is free
She might say something along the line of “I’m free this weekend”
Nods in conversations
She will nod in agreement with what you are saying.
Gives you compliments
Can be anything from a watch, clothes, hair, etc.
Remembers what you say
She’ll remember all the minor details of a conversation
Says your name a lot
She will say your name a lot in conversation.
Brings up sexual topics
Should be pretty easy to spot her flirting
Group Settings
In a group setting she makes the first approach
Are you in a club or group with a large amount of members. If she comes up to you and introduces herself, she’s probably attracted to you/
Turning In Her Seat Towards You
If you are in a group setting where people are sitting down(Like a classroom), she might move her seat in your direction.
Her friends make an effort to leave you two alone
If you are hanging out with a group and her friends try to leave her to keep you two alone, she’s probably told her friends about you. She wants some personal time to get to know you or have you make a move.
When she does or says something, she looks at you to see what your reaction is
She’s trying to gauge what you like or don’t like.
She gets flustered when you say hello as she is talking to another guy
She might get embarrassed that you caught her talking to another guy rather than you.
She Makes Excuses to Talk to You
She is going to make up some excuse to have a conversation with you.
Gives you more attention
Does she interact with you more than anyone else in the group or club?
Friends give you clues she likes you
She might have told her friends about you. She will get her friends to drop subtle hints for you to either talk to her or ask her out.
How to Tell if a Girl Likes You Online
Immediately adds you on Social Media
After talking to her for the first time, does she add you on social media?
Liking, & Commenting
She will like and comment on your pictures on instagram, facebook, snapchat, or twitter.
Tagging
Posts on Social Media that she is with you
DMs or messages
Is she sending you memes, images, snaps, or messages?
How to Tell if a Girl Likes You Over Text
Text almost daily
If you text daily, she’s interested in you. She wouldn’t be wasting time with a guy she doesn’t like.
Initiates the textings
Is she the one starting conversations?
Drunk Calling or Texting
Drunk thoughts are sober thoughts
Texts you life updates
She’s initiating a conversation by giving you updates
Texts you photos
She might be trying to show off her body or some other personal traits.
Always Replies within a reasonable time
Is she always responding within a few hours? Most people don’t get that treatment, even family.
Other Signs
Teases you
She might tease you about something
Wants you to meet her friends
She wants to see if you also vibe with her closer friends in a social setting
Pretend to be distressed to see your response
She wants to test and see how you respond
Hang out one on one
She will keep pushing this so you are alone with her.
Develops interests in your interests
This is a way for her to try and get some of the same interests as you
Asks you to teach her
She might ask you to teach her a hobby or sport
Asks you to walk her home or to her car
Easy way to spend more time with you, and she might invite you inside her house
Follows through on suggestions
She wants to have things in common or feel like there is value in the relationship
Looks for common ground
Easy way to attempt to try and win you over
She randomly runs into you
You might run into her when you are out in public on more than one occurrence.
Her friends have heard about you
If she likes you, her friends know.
Final Thoughts
Hopefully you learned quite a bit from this article. These are the signals that you need to pay attention to next time your out with girls.
Make sure to use them to your advantage to land some dates and hookup.
