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Push Pull Technique

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What is The Push Pull Method

The Push Pull technique is an advanced flirting method that when used correctly, is one the best forms of pickup. Many experts in the field agree that using it properly can and will lead to attraction.

In this guide, I’m going over everything you need to know from the definitions, advice, why it works, and practical examples.

Mind Game

Simply put, push pull is psychological manipulation. You give and take which leads to attraction. 

It’s like fishing. You put the bait right in front of the fish. With some manipulation to the line, the fish is hooked.

You are now in control of the conversation or relationship. The ball is in your court.



When you “push” a girl, you are showing that you are disinterested in her.

Pull Definition

When you “pull” a girl, you are showing that you are interested in her.

Push/Pull Definition

This is when you use a mixture of both the push and pull definition.

If you push too much, you can come off as an asshole.

If you pull too much, you can come off as needy.

When using both, you have the perfect recipe for success.

Advice For Using Push/Pull

  • For every push, there needs to be a pull
  • For rvery pull, there needs to be a push
  • You can start with a push or pull
  • Push when she is attracted
  • Pull when she is not attracted
  • Push Pull can be physical
  • Push Pull can be in a sentence
  • Push Pull can be across a few days
  • Don’t memorize lines
  • Always keep it balanced

Push Pull Technique Examples

Push Examples

  • Closed Body Language
  • Showing Lack of interest
  • Time restraints
  • Looking Away
  • Boredom

Pull Examples

  • Compliments
  • Open Body Language
  • Shared Interests
  • Liking her interests
  • Strong Eye Contact

Final Thoughts

This technique works great with hookups and short term relationships.

It takes time to master this skill so get out there and start practicing.

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