This is a make or break question. Anyone who has been on Tinder for more than a month has probably heard it before. Answer it wrong, expect to be ghosted or unmatched. It might be cruel but that’s the reality of the situation.
Girls want to filter out those who have differing intentions. They get lots of matches so they have options.
In this guide I’ll be taking you through my research upon what works best for this situation.
Everyone has different expectations
Guys and girls have two different expectations from what they want on Tinder. As assumed, most guys want to hookup, while girls would rather date.
A study actually confirmed these findings.
50% of guys just want to hookup compared to 15% of girls.
This puts you in a bad situation if you honestly tell a girl that you want to hookup. 85% say they don’t want to(even though they secretly want to). Their anti-slut shield is up.
So how do you answer this shit test?
How to best answer the question
Your best bet is to be somewhat ambiguous by letting the girl know that you ideally want to meet new people.
Honesty actually scares off girls in online dating.
They won’t admit to wanting to hookup in fear of being labeled as easy.
Avoid oversexualizing the conversation and lead to getting a date with a girl.
From there you can convert her to a hookup or into a relationship.