What Are You Looking For On Tinder

What Are You Looking For On Tinder

Table of Contents

Want to get more matches, dates and hookups?

Join our FREE newsletter that shares secret tactics and behind the scene strategies.

This is a make or break question. Anyone who has been on Tinder for more than a month has probably heard it before. Answer it wrong, expect to be ghosted or unmatched. It might be cruel but that’s the reality of the situation.

Girls want to filter out those who have differing intentions. They get lots of matches so they have options.

In this guide I’ll be taking you through my research upon what works best for this situation.

Everyone has different expectations

Guys and girls have two different expectations from what they want on Tinder. As assumed, most guys want to hookup, while girls would rather date.

A study actually confirmed these findings.

50% of guys just want to hookup compared to 15% of girls.

This puts you in a bad situation if you honestly tell a girl that you want to hookup. 85% say they don’t want to(even though they secretly want to). Their anti-slut shield is up.

So how do you answer this shit test?

How to best answer the question

Your best bet is to be somewhat ambiguous by letting the girl know that you ideally want to meet new people.

Honesty actually scares off girls in online dating.

They won’t admit to wanting to hookup in fear of being labeled as easy.

Avoid oversexualizing the conversation and lead to getting a date with a girl.

From there you can convert her to a hookup or into a relationship.

The Only Tinder Course You'll Ever Need

$97 $19.97

First 20 people get a FREE Coaching call!( valued at $97)

$174.03 in total savings!!

Want to get more matches, dates and hookups?

Join our FREE newsletter that shares secret tactics and behind the scene strategies.

About Ryan N.

A former 260 lbs overweight nerd with gpa of 7.32, graduated high school as a valedictorian. He never made time for girls, school was his priority. While this is all great on paper, his morale was at an all time low. He wanted a change… “I wanted to land my first kiss, so I decided to change.” That’s when Ryan choose to spend hundreds of hours understanding the algorithm to the online dating world. Developing systems and profiles that made women naturally swipe like on his profile.

The Only Tinder Course You'll Ever Need

$97 $19.97

First 20 people get a FREE Coaching call!( valued at $97)

$174.03 in total savings!!

Want to get more matches, dates and hookups?

Join our FREE newsletter that shares secret tactics and behind the scene strategies.

Related Posts

swipe left or right

Swiping left or right is today’s version of hot or not. A simple yes or no. Am I attracted to her? Swipe right. Is she unattractive? Swipe left

Read More »

Top Picks Tinder

Top picks are a recent addition to Tinder. It gives you a list of 10 profiles daily that have high elo scores and similar interests as you.

Read More »
What Are You Looking For On Tinder

What Are You Looking For On Tinder

This is a make or break question. Anyone who has been on Tinder for more than a month has probably heard it before. Answer it wrong, expect to be ghosted or unmatched. It might be cruel but that’s the reality of the situation.

Read More »
Scroll to Top

since you are here what is your biggest problem with dating so far